Black and BlueWednesday, January 6, 2016 6:15 AM
The best laid plans of mice and men often go awry...
Oh good morning Lovelies!
So we are mid week, the first week of January of this new year and I already want to press the re-do button! At the end of the year I had a small list of things I want to work on. I made my resolutions, I posted about them, assuming this, 2016 was going to be my year. One resolution I made was to not get involved in others issues, if it doesn't involve me, it doesn't concern me. One thing I should have added to my resolutions list is; The actions of others will not get me down. I am my own person and I only have control over myself and my actions. However, when someone acts selfishly over and over again and it directly impacts my life, it does concern me. Actually, it doesn't just concern me... It makes me very, very angry, infuriates me. I can not for the life of me understand how some people are so self absorbed, that they care little to nothing about anyone else. Not their loved ones, not their children, only themselves and what is best (or what they think is best) for them, at that very moment. Never ever thinking about repercussions or consequences of their actions. I am not a pushover, but I have always been the type to give someone the benefit of the doubt, and way more chances than they deserve. But every time they behave badly it surprises me all over again, like it is the first time.
So this first week is a mulligan and is not to be counted. I will continue to forgive, because holding onto anger and resentment is only harmful to myself, but I will be better at not forgetting.
So here's to a re-start of 2016!
|Photographs- Camille Fay|
What I wore:Dress: SheIn
Scarf: Charming Charlie's
Opaque Tights: HUE
Black Studded Gloves: similar here
Booties: Stuart Weitzeman OLD similar
Human by Christina Perri